I apologize as I've been too busy to look for threads like these.

In this case, it appears that you've neglected to enable dropbear, the ssh service, and thus cannot connect. To fix this, you will likely need to get a serial cable made to gain access to uboot and make teh appropriate change.

I have recently made it bigger and bolder, in hope that others will not make this mistake. If you need further assistance, I will follow this thread, and am generally reachable via the #plugapps channel on freenode.